Ohana means family

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Two days before our departure for Oahu I received the news that my sister's husband was seriously ill in hospital. The decision to cancel the trip to Hawaii was unanimous.
A week later he passed away. Through it all we stayed with my sister. Family comes first. Hawaii can wait.

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